Wednesday 3 September 2014

Bring on Fall!

Hi all,

We had originally set our give away to end tonight at midnight. With that being said, we haven't reached our goal of $2000. We're half way there!!! So close! So, we've decided to hold it over until we reach our goal, then draw names for the given items and ship them off to their new homes.
With help of sharing our post of the give away it will help us spread the word and raise the final funds that I will take with me to Beautiful Gate Care Centre.

In a previous Facebook post I had a little sneak peak into the Beautiful Gate Care Centre, here it is incase you missed it.

Here's a little about Beautiful Gate Care Centre:
The name Beautiful Gate originates from: Acts 3:2 Now a man crippled from birth was being carried to the temple gate called Beautiful, where he was put every day to beg from those going into the temple courts. When he saw Peter and John about to enter, he asked for money. Peter looked straight at him, as did John. Then Peter said, "Look at us!" Then Peter said, Silver or gold I do not have, but what I have I give you in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, walk.

What They Do:
They provide residential and medial care to abandoned children ages 0-5. They network with the government and organizations to advocate for the rights of these children.

We're waiting, hoping for the August meeting but also trying not to focus on it too much. So while we wait, we're hosting a fundraiser with great prizes to be won by donation. ALL moneys will go directly to Beautiful Gate! There are many projects always happening in Beautiful Gate, new houses need to be built to make room for new babies, repairs, staffing rooms, medical supplies, vehicles (just to name a few). All of this to properly care for all of the children. The site has five children’s houses with a capacity of 75. It has a house for playgroup, chapel, clinic, administration building, maintenance building, long-term volunteer housing, and recently we opened the short-term volunteer dorm. It has 45 local staff and 67 children. Over the years, Beautiful Gate has helped over 400 children, many who were adopted both internationally and locally or reunited with their families.

Donate as little as 10$ or as much as you'd like.. get entered for some awesome prizes and help a little one have a safe place to play, get the medicine she needs and the nutrients to grow









With that being said, the matching meeting DID in fact finally happen!!! August 29th was the meeting date and we are hopeful to hear back from Sunrise by this Friday to see if we have been matched. If a referral comes through for us, it will still be a few weeks until we receive any information on our daughter. Just knowing we have been matched will give us a full heart and make the last few waiting times a little easier. Once again, on the edge of our seats… waiting! There has been some major political turmoil in Lesotho this past week. There are currently no police in Lesotho but the town has been quiet and looting or petty theft has not happened. Volunteers have fled to South Africa for secure safety until things are back to normal. We are keeping them in our thoughts and hoping for a peaceful resolution. For more information on that, you can read the Beautiful Gate Blog here:
http://blog.www.beautifulafrica.org/2014/09/political-unrest-in-maseru/

Until this resolves (hopefully soon) it is deemed unsafe to travel. Our travel date, if matched, would likely be a few months away and we are hopeful it will be resolved come that time. However, for the families who were already matched and have a September travel date, this could be heart breaking! Praying that the safety to travel will change soon and they will be able to continue through to be joined with their child.

Thursday 21 August 2014

Fundraiser Update

As the summer is winding down, the cooler weather feels even cooler after our long heat wave. We've been working on our give away, spreading the word around and bringing in donations.

Some of you might be confused as we had blogged previously about our fundraiser and that we were raising money for the rest of our adoption. Leading up to our give away, plans had changed and we decided to go a different route for our personal financial adoption account. We already had all of our give away prizes ready to go, so we thought what an amazing opportunity to pay it forward and host a fundraiser for L's orphanage (Beautiful Gate Care Centre). They could use the money in so many ways, for things we take for granted on a daily basis.

Today we're sitting at raising $500 of our $2000 goal. Our original plan was to hold this fundraiser a month long (September 3rd) but we may be holding it over until we reach our goal. We will see when the date gets closer.

This month is another matching meeting. Feeling pretty proud of myself this time around for not allowing my brain to become anxious. Still in the back of my mind, but trying really hard to allow what ever is supposed to happen, happen. I have no control over any of it, so i'm letting it all go (with my fingers and toes crossed).

Have you made a donation yet? Check our previous blog post for all the details… We've got some amazing prizes worth bidding on! We will ship them anywhere!

~
Wilkinson Family


Sunday 3 August 2014

****GIVE AWAY****

WILKINSON’S TO LESOTHO ~ 
FUNDRAISER FOR BEAUTIFUL GATE ORPHANAGE



ALL proceeds from this give away fundraiser will go directly to Beautiful Gate Orphanage in Maseru, Lesotho. Adopting from Lesotho is more than bringing our daughter home. It's about helping in every way we can to provide things that are necessities, things we take for granted on a daily basis.
We’re almost there! We’re in the last lag of our amazing journey. In January of this year we made the final decision that it was time to move forward with completing our family through adoption. We have had people all over our community donate items to our garage sale, all proceeds from my home business (Serene Solace) have gone towards our adoption fund and at the beginning of our journey, we sold our vehicle and downgraded to a used van. Here we are, fast forward to now... August. It all seems like a blur.
We are waiting and waiting and have made the decision to put a fundraiser together for The Beautiful Gate Orphanage in Maseru, Lesotho.
We are hosting a **GIVE AWAY** with 6 great ticket items! With each donation you make to our fundraiser, you will be entered for a chance to WIN!

Here are the logistics:

10$ donation = 1 entry
20$ donation = 3 entries
50$ donation = 9 entries
100$ donation = 20 entries


**IMPORTANT**
When you make your donation, please leave a comment on the donation payment page of which item(s) you would like to be entered for. If for some reason you’ve missed it, leave me a comment on our blog post and I can match them up.
Make sure I can contact you, if you are a lucky winner... I need to be able to get ahold of you!
Give Away will end at 11:59pm PST September 3, 2014 
Random.org will be used to draw the winners, personally contacted and posted on our blog!



ALL proceeds from this give away fundraiser will go directly to Beautiful Gate. It could help with medical supplies, clothing, diapers, maintenance, toys for the children… you name it!
Have questions, please feel free to contact me!

And share!! Please spread the word! Post our blog on Facebook, twitter or your own blog, the more the merrier :)
BIG thank you in advance to everyone who's popped in to check things out, made donations and helped us spread the word, world wide!

Donations have been graciously made by the following:

103.5 The Juice FM   http://1035.juicefm.ca 



~ GIVE AWAY ITEMS ~

ITEM #1
Brand New Ipad 16GB 4th Generation in Black
Valued at $609 (tax & shipping incl.)





ITEM #2
Brand New KitchenAid Ultra Power Series 4.5QT Tilt Head Stand Mixer in Green Apple
Valued at $499 (tax & shipping incl.)




ITEM #3
Brand New iPod Nano 16GB 7th Generation in Blue
Valued at $200 (tax & shipping incl.)




ITEM #4
Nelson Leaf's Season's Pass
Valued at $200




ITEM #5
Brand New Nelson Leaf's Jersey
Valued at $100




ITEM #6
4 Full rounds of 18 hole golf at the Castlegar Golf Club
Valued at $ 250
donated by: 103.5 The Juice FM





Sunday 20 July 2014

A Summer Follow Up

July '14


Hello friends!!

It's been a bit of time since my last post!

Recently on June 24th we received an email from our Sunrise agency informing us of a last minute meeting that was planned to be held on June 27th. What a whirlwind 4 days that was… so many emotions jam packed! In the overall looking at those 4 days, it was nice to have such short notice as we didn't have months to be anxious over it all. However, after getting in contact the following week and a few days of emailing Sunrise repeatedly about what was happening, it turns out the meeting never happened and is now postponed until mid-end of August. This is normal for Africa to cancel or postpone. Was feeling super bummed about the whole thing so i went shopping for girly items!!


It gave me time to think about where we need to get the house at, with switching bedrooms around and setting up L's room (I'm not giving away her name until she's here ;) ).
So in the last little while we've had many projects on the go and I can finally say they are almost complete!! I refinished a big dresser for my eldest's new room and got it all put together. He loves it! He is happily in a "big boy room"with a "big boy bed" now. Placed a small order with Ikea, got everything put together and a super adorable kid sized rocking chair I refinished in pink. I hope she will like pink!!
Crib is all put together and her room is almost complete. One wall to paint and a crib mattress to go in. Her clothes are ready in her room and the boys check in, on a daily basis to see if she's here yet. It's the sweetest thing in the world. They truly love her heaps already!!

                                 Refinished dresser project for my eldest.. it turned out great!

                                                     Sweet little rocking chair refinished


Kyle has always put these kinds of things together… he laughed at how long it took me! But, it was so satisfying doing it all myself



Girly diapers are ready to go!


We are still waiting on our Part 1 of citizenship to return back… we really can't do much without it and it was due back over 2 weeks ago. Thankfully our local MP quickly responded to my email and they are helping us work through getting the paperwork we need and we should have an answer by early next week!

I have been busy gathering donations to take with me and started making lists of what I already have. I have also made my appointment for travel vaccinations, something I completely spaced but is now taken care of… Phew!



On another side note… We have something BIG planned!! In our efforts to raise funds for the last portion of this journey we have done small fundraisers. We need to do something big this time!! Won't give too much away as we're just in the beginning of planning this all out, but here's an idea…
We are planning on a fundraiser BBQ somewhere local and open to the public followed by an auction with some great big ticket items. We're planning to work with Kevin from 1035 The Juice FM (formerly The Bridge) radio station to help us get the word out and promote our location and our efforts. Make sure you stay tuned for details as we plan this along!

We hope all of you are enjoying your summer!!


Thursday 12 June 2014

Summer Time Love

June '14


Summer is here, it's hot and beautiful with our evening thunder and lightening storms. The boys are finally able to enjoy the outdoors running around with water toys and the spray park across the street is up and running folks!! Yipee for an easy care free summer which will include a lot of "mom I'm bored" from my 5 year old. I can't help but kind of wish it away, trying not to watch the calendar like watching paint dry… COME ON SEPTEMBER!
Our dossier got held up with a few changes that needed to happen and then it all got too confusing with miscommunication. On top of that a matching meeting happened and our agency didn't know about it. So, sadly we missed that one. It's off to victoria to get authenticated and legalized and then next stop Lesotho!! I'm watching those tracking numbers like a hawk!

Matching meetings happen every 4 months, so here's to September!! Enjoying the hot sunny weather, time spent with my boys and lots of gardening. We've been told that one family waiting is ahead of us, so we're second on the list. I don't know what the norm is, and I'm trying not to get my hopes too high but… this could possibly happen in September?? Which would put us traveling around end of December if everything goes to plan. I've been trying to contain myself with buying all the girly things (so hard after 3 boys). I can't tell you how many times I have planned her room in my head, which color to paint, textiles to go with and I *might* have purchased a few items of clothing?? I just can't resist!!

I've been gathering donation items to take and my spare bedroom/office is officially a loading zone. This spare bedroom/office will soon be Quinn's new "big boy" room. I've been brain storming on how to make it a cool new space for him so that he's excited about the whole idea as apposed to feeling like he has to. Ideas??


On a gardening note, Kyle built us a green house this year! Everything is thriving!! I am so excited to harvest our garden this year and know we grew everything from seed! Growing this year are:
Butternut Squash
Green Onions
Basil (lots for home made pesto)
Cucumbers
Mini Sugar Pumpkins (for baking)
Purple Carrots
Red Onion
Summer Sweet Peas
Gigantic Pumpkins (halloween carving)
Beefy Tomatoes
Corn
Roma Tomatoes

On the list is another large garden bed so we can get garlic in this year also! Yum Yum Yum…
I hope wherever you are the sun is warming up and summer is on it's way :)

Sunday 20 April 2014

Happy Easter… Happy Dossier!

April '14


We've been MIA for the last while and finally have some time to sit think…
Life sure can get away from you and zoom past like the blink of an eye! The last few weeks have been difficult. Finishing up our home study, putting together our dossier and photos and filing for citizenship. For those who don't know, a dossier is a file that contains all your information, who you are and what you are about. Heres a quick over view of what it contains:

local criminal record checks (2)
medical reports including reports for all of our children
financial statements from taxes including papers from the CRA
verification of income from our employer
letter to department of social welfare:  
~who we are, dob, nationality and where born
~describe our child and any medical conditions we are willing to accept (very hard)
~why lesotho?
~about Nelson and where we live
~our culture plan (how do we plan to incorporate her culture into our lives on a daily basis)
~about our work (what we do and where)
guardianship letters ~ signed and notarized
post-placement repots agreements ~ signed
statement of risks in inter-country adoptions ~ signed
power of attorney ~ signed and notarized
letters of consent from family members (a short sentence stating they accept our adoption, accept an adopted child into our family and will love and care for them as they would any other child we have)
birth certificates ~ signed and notarized
passports ~ signed and notarized
marriage certificare ~ signed and notarized
photographs ~ 4 copies of each: interior of our house (all rooms), exterior, child's bedroom, surrounding environments, schools, parks, work places, ourselves, extended family & immediate family

PHEW…. did I miss anything?! Needless to say, it's been busy and I've never stood so long at the Walmart photo kiosk waiting for pictures to print. With all of that, we've still been having our social worker visits and regular busy boy activities. With the weather finally turning to spring, it's been nice to get outside. Park visits, soccer starting next weekend (Quinn's first year and daddy coaching!) I can't wait for summer!

During our last 2 home study visits and our letter to department of social welfare we've had to look over some very difficult things… What does our child look like? You picture a beautiful happy healthy child but then handed a medical form of what you will accept and what you won't. It was very daunting and personally one of the hardest things to accomplish. We took a few extra weeks to sit on this one… it wasn't an easy project we could just jump all over and complete. At no point do you ever wish your child to have any type of medical issue whether bio or not. But, with the help of our doctor and other adoptive families we managed to accomplish it. All is good, and we can now move onto our next step! YAY!

Next week we will finish up a few last minute photos I forgot about taking, write another big fat cheque, package up our dossier and send it off to Sunrise who will then send it off to Lesotho! Then we truly wait, wait and…. wait

So, to all of you… I wish you a Happy Easter with much love and hope you are all enjoying some family. To us… Happy Dossier! Yahoo!!




Wednesday 5 March 2014

Rush Rush…. Wait...

March '14

All of this paper work and meeting's feels a lot like travel! Rush, rush, rush… what am I forgetting? Did we get everything signed? Once its all complete, WAIT! Its like a panic to pack everything, get to the airport on time and then sit and wait because your flight has been delayed (in our situation it's been delayed 2-4 years). At this point we are 1/2 way through our home study now and shooting to be done by end of March or early April. So far so good! It has been mildly intrusive (as it should be) and digging up the past 29 years has had it's moments… I'm not going to lie!
Our last meeting included the kids (never again). What a gong show!! It's like they tried extra hard to be on their worst behaviour and test our limits to the max. Surprise Surprise!!

The last few weeks we have overloaded on documentaries and reading material. US Netflix had tons to choose from, it was great! Some of them hard to stomach; with one or two that I just couldn't finish. I'll list them below if anyone is looking. They are not all on adoption, but culture "way of life" for some children. I experienced every emotion watching these and I'm sure they can be found on line.

Netflix:
Children of Payre
Mother India (available on Can Netflix)
Stuck
The World Before Her
Off and Running
First Circle
The Blood of Yingz Hou
Half the Sky episode 1 & 2
It's a Girl (available on Can Netflix)
Somewhere Between (available on Can Netflix)

Books:
Hidden Betrayed Exploited And Forgotten


Cut: The True Story Of An Abandoned, Abused Little Girl Who Was Desperate To Be Part Of A Family


Saddest Girl In The World


Happy Kids



I Like Myself!

Chocolate Me!

The Best Part of Me: Children talk about their bodies in pictures and words

The Skin You Live In

Will You Love Me?: The story of my adopted daughter Lucy

Our next task is completing the Self Assessment Questionnaire (26 pages of questions). It is for adopting older children or special needs. I'm having a hard time with it as I don't consider a 2 year old an "older child." In the adoption world, I guess it is. A special needs child also means a child who has spent time in an orphanage, not just one with a mental or physical disability or disease. So… we've received a list of special needs (lengthy) and must go through them checking either 1.) we will accept or 2.) we will not accept
We've made an apt. with our physician as more than half of the "special needs" are foreign to us. Also considering with today's medicine and health care, some might be very minuscule or very easy to control now. It's a bit overwhelming and I'm hoping our doctor can help clear it all up for us!


On a side note… Our trip was amazing! The kids had a blast and we soaked up the sun, sand and surf for 2.5 glorious weeks with 30+ weather. Likely our last trip for a long time now and hoping the next trip we take will be with our new little one. A tad bit excited to come home to some snow but we've had our fill now and it can go any day now! Bring on SPRING!!






   ~ Windsor's piggies in the sand
                                   
                                                     ~ day at the aquarium


                                                    ~ Hudson was too long to spell while sitting… Hudy it is
                                           ~ sunset at beach III
                                                     ~ morning swing at the park
                                                     ~ Our last sunset… it was a beauty!